失去了


「時間」

人嘅一生其實失去的係應該比得到的更多。好多事同物都會俾時間慢慢咁逐少逐少咁吞噬。就算你出盡九牛二虎之力,意圖改變嚟啲殘酷嘅現實,因為基本上係無可能。所以我哋應該要學識點樣去面對每日我哋都有可能失去嘅事物,但係唔代表順來逆受。有時你越唔想失去嘅嘢偏偏就會好容易失去,所以何必執著得失,因為有時以為係失但係其實係得。何必計較咁多呢?

「失去」

你有無試過諗下自己一生失去咗嘅有幾多?金錢?愛情?事業?朋友?家庭?時間?健康?好多時真係數之不盡,但係有時又諗下如果當初無失,今日嘅自己又會係點呢?人就係咁,經常會話自己失去咗好多嘢,而我當然都係其中一個會諗自己過去失去咗啲乜,只不過我好多時亦都會諗我之後可以攞得返。當然人大咗先知道有啲嘢真係失去咗就失去咗係無得返轉頭。

「害怕」

每個人都會害怕失去某啲嘢,我當然亦都例外。我最驚失去啲乜?當然係我嘅另一半啦,因為其實應該佢先係最清楚你嗰個,但係當愛情變成感情甚至親情,自自然然就會覺得好多嘢都應該知,應該明。但係諗深一層,最清楚自己嗰個始終係自己,所以唔好覺得關係耐咗就真係乜都唔講就知。其次就當然係家庭,因為家庭永遠係最好嘅避難所,無論事情去到幾懷都好,家永遠係家,而家係一個無私嘅地方。


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